tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post7401522164269385212..comments2024-03-29T00:38:46.644-04:00Comments on Reiki Awakening: R-E-S-P-E-C-TAlice Langholthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05131947858300825385noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-67883041278315081592011-03-11T18:55:54.814-05:002011-03-11T18:55:54.814-05:00The notion that healing work should be done for fr...The notion that healing work should be done for free has set the field back hundreds of years. That woman sounds like she was in the grip of some very self destructive thoughts and feelings. People never question a car mechanic for fixing a car. I find it hilarious that Reiki, or other healing work, which can often produce life changing results, is bizarrely written off as a give away. In fact, most practitioners should be charging more, as it provides for a respectful exchange of energy. After all, if people are willing to drop $200 on a handbag without a second thought, why nitpick about something that brings about peace, happiness, and health?<br /><br />One last thought: why does the Reiki precept say to avoid anger? Anger should be embraced as part of our natural human emotions and let go. A lot of healers do themselves harm by trying to avoid the natural "negative" emotions, then they get repressed, or we carry them subconsciously and have other people (i.e. angry woman on facebook) throw them out at us. <br /><br />I personally love getting angry, and stomping around! It's fun! And in this world there is a lot to get angry about! <br /><br />Just a thought :) Thanks for writing a great blog!Seth Hymeshttp://healinglosangeles.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-82841899713847664202011-02-28T13:35:37.797-05:002011-02-28T13:35:37.797-05:00Hello Alice
Would you like to link blogs. I have a...Hello Alice<br />Would you like to link blogs. I have already added you as a frend on Face book.<br />the link to my blog is<br />http://gorlestonreiki.blogspot.com<br />As soon as you add me i will add you back asap<br />Love and Light<br />GorlsetonReiki <3Gorleston Reikihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13706773770754616705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-15810555229913633262011-02-10T22:43:11.615-05:002011-02-10T22:43:11.615-05:00Susan,
Thank you for contributing more for us to ...Susan,<br /><br />Thank you for contributing more for us to think about, and your own experiences and advice you were given. I appreciate you.<br /><br />Chudexs,<br /><br />To share energy is, in this context, offering Reiki energy, which is a healing essence of life force energy for the recipient to absorb where he or she is ready to receive it. I'm glad you liked the post and thank you for your comment.<br /><br />Blessings, AliceAlice Langholthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05131947858300825385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-12299087148959125652011-02-10T22:30:40.486-05:002011-02-10T22:30:40.486-05:00wowow ... discussion is very impressive. what is m...wowow ... discussion is very impressive. what is meant here to share energy?<br />but I caught there is a power to do good to all. and I guess all we can share even just a smile that makes others follow more spirit. thankschudexshttp://http;//uii.ac.idnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-10769245398768338152011-02-04T21:09:04.874-05:002011-02-04T21:09:04.874-05:00It can be a tough balance for some to receive or t...It can be a tough balance for some to receive or to pay for the gift of reiki- my Reiki Master always shared that there should always be some kind of energy exchange, it can but does not have to take the for of money.<br /><br />but she also cautoned against doing too much "work" for free. She counseled aginst this because one can very easily develop a feeling of anger, resentment or feeling undervalued( for your time).<br /><br />You must also take in to account the time and money you paid for your training to become a reiki practitioner, that was and is valuable.<br /><br />It sounds like you really do donate a lot of your time. I do not thik that you should feel bad for charging for distant healings, or secnd guess your inner Truth.<br /><br />I asm sorry that you had that experience with antoher reiki practitioner.<br /><br />Yes we are all human and we all make mistakes. Thank you for posting the reiki Principas.<br /><br />Susan Marintez<br />Reiki Master/ Teacher<br />Healing Lotus Yoga & Reiki<br />Central NJSusan Martinezhttp://www.healinglotusreiki.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-61737424432460923622011-01-17T14:57:58.591-05:002011-01-17T14:57:58.591-05:00Karen,
Thank you, and I'm glad that I wrote t...Karen,<br /><br />Thank you, and I'm glad that I wrote this post too. I didn't want to engage in another debate over the merits of money for Reiki, but instead just to put out there the need for practitioners to respect each other. Thank you for understanding that and supporting my efforts.<br /><br />Healing Heart Reiki,<br />Ah, it was you! Just email me with your Groupon number over the barcode when you're ready to redeem your voucher and schedule your distance session! <br />Thank you for your support in this issue in all ways, too. I agree about the idea that an aspect of respect means being willing to offer payment for services, as a recognition of value received. Much love to you.<br /><br />Divine Lotus Healing,<br />How wonderful about that study you mentioned, and the insightful view that anger may well be coming from the need for the person who expressed it to reexamine her own viewpoint instead of attacking mine. Agreed. xo and thanks for your comment!<br /><br />Frannie,<br />I appreciate your comment and commend you on your own journey and the way you're already offering healing energy to others. If I can ever be of support to you please email me. Love and light in all you do.<br /><br />Beadhack,<br />Self healing and self reflection are a part of mindful practice, and you are exemplifying that process in your post. If everyone did as much, things would be better all 'round, wouldn't ya say? Thank you for your insights and thank you for taking the time to lend a supportive comment.<br /><br />Scott,<br />You are so right that we have much in common here. Being out there offering something of a spiritual nature does put us in the spotlight in that way. I am glad you brought your energy here today and always welcome our discussions. Blessings to you and may your motives always be understood in the positive light that they are intended.<br /><br />Victoria, <br />I completely agree and thanks for responding as such. There are many of us out there, and I know that what I offer those who exchange money for a healing is my complete mindful attention and a full report of my observations during my time sending them energy. It is of value in many ways and I know that the reflections as well as the energy are useful to the client. Accepting payment for services is what allows me to devote the maximum of my time to teaching and offering Reiki. Otherwise I'd need to get another unrelated job that would take away time from my ability to help others in this way. I need to feed my family. So thanks for allowing me the space to reflect on this and thanks for commenting. Love and light to you!<br /><br />Lynda,<br />Thanks for your support today and always! Yes on the comment about the precepts too. If the person who accosted me was so into doing things the traditional way, I wonder if she paid $10K for her Reiki education, or charges it to her students. Things have changed, evolved, and grown. Thankfully so.<br />Love and blessings,<br /><br />AliceAlice Langholthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05131947858300825385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-56761112811980054022011-01-17T13:55:30.824-05:002011-01-17T13:55:30.824-05:00Alice, you are awesome! And why we shouldn't c...Alice, you are awesome! And why we shouldn't charge for sending distance reiki is beyond me, since we are trying to make a living. <br /><br />But respect is the key. For someone to come off publicly so angry, when anger is directly addressed in the precepts, is just interesting ;)Lynda Lippinhttp://reikigoddessblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-69775617622414008622011-01-17T13:11:17.516-05:002011-01-17T13:11:17.516-05:00As a fellow Reiki practitioner I would simply like...As a fellow Reiki practitioner I would simply like to say that my thought has always been that if someone is happy to pay you for distant healing, and they receive the necessary benefits that they expected, there is no problem. People will assign their own value to things and if they are happy to pay then great and I feel that the only ones able to comment are the people who do actually pay. If they feel it is unfair or morally wrong at least they have a valid point of view. Every practitioner works towards the same end result, we are all different, but as long as the work to be done, is done, that's what is important, not another fellow practitioners marketing plan or method of work! Live and Let Live xxxVictorianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-46748673008306414852011-01-17T12:59:37.084-05:002011-01-17T12:59:37.084-05:00I'm not a Reiki practitioner but a follower of...I'm not a Reiki practitioner but a follower of Christ, and I consider Alice a friend of mine. I further enjoy her friendship and her view of life. She and I differ on a few things, but we always do it with a great conversation and respect.<br /><br />Just want to add one observation. The world will always examine your motives no matter what if you charge for what you do when it falls in the area of spiritual things (wide brush here). The question they are asking is: "Are you doing this for the money or for the greater good?" As a pastor I am expected to care more, love more, do more, sacrifice more and go further than anyone and at no point should I look for my personnel gain. Scripture says to stay away from even "the perception of evil". Who's perception? Those around me...That's the rub. Truth is that is what it takes to earn trust and keep it. All who are in highly visible positions have to work under these presuppositions. <br /><br />I want to make it clear I am making no judgments here, just an observation. <br /><br />I enjoyed the blog.<br />-ScottScott Harnesshttp://www.scottharness.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-24795073510306807202011-01-17T12:27:08.692-05:002011-01-17T12:27:08.692-05:00Couple of things - I kept trying to remember the p...Couple of things - I kept trying to remember the precepts and all I could get was, "Just for today I will not judge". Boy was I off. I think I'll keep it tho, and start adding from the REAL list. <br /><br />I had an odd 'dog turning its head sideways at funny sound' moment on the logic of not charging for distant reiki vs. reiki in person. Personally I don't see the difference. If you're going to a distance reiki session, if you normally do a 60 min session in person, I would expect a 60 minute distance session. <br /><br />The concept of compensation for energy work. I had to work through that one myself, and discovered I had(am still gratefully working thru) issues of self worth. Also, issues of discounting the value of work and goods provided by others, which I absorbed as my own take on things. Becoming aware of these tendencies, I try to monitor my thoughts/feelings when dealing with compensation/value/worth. <br /><br />Thank you for writing about it. Thank you for sending the post off to the digital compost pile. Thank you for continuing your work.<br /><br />Peace.beadhackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13277860428215706463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-72791432570499716862011-01-17T12:10:18.962-05:002011-01-17T12:10:18.962-05:00Great post, Alice. I'm always baffled at how p...Great post, Alice. I'm always baffled at how people sometimes think they can tell us what's right/wrong and what we should do about it. <br />I'm a reiki "newbie" and just had my 2nd attunement 2 weeks ago. I do volunteer my services at my church 2-3 times a month. I'm not offering paid services now because I'm practicing still and want to get better at it. But if I were at the level you are at, I would absolutely charge because ultimately it's an exchange of energy...you can't give out too much and not have some sort of return, that's ridiculous.<br /><br />Anyway, kudos to you for standing your ground!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-77352129126390899632011-01-17T12:08:41.415-05:002011-01-17T12:08:41.415-05:00I charge for my distance Reiki sessions too for se...I charge for my distance Reiki sessions too for several reasons. And, if someone doesn't like that well there are lots of Reiki practitioners out there and they can find one who matches their needs. Lauelle Shanti Gaia, practitioner & writer for Reiki News Magazine, did a study in the Southwest that bonded together all the Reiki practitioners in that area and all their sales increased by creating a positive energy flow, just like you spoke about! The other thing I keep thinking about this person who was so angry at you is: often anger that we express outward is a mirror for something personal and the anger is a signal for us to look at our own lives. The trick for those of us who were berrated with the anger is to remain centered in our own strength and conviction and not be swayed. It sounds like you are doing that :) I wish you lots of Reiki blessings and I wish them on the angry person as well! :)Divine Lotus Healinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05464423409696388387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-76240879710366082522011-01-17T11:31:30.427-05:002011-01-17T11:31:30.427-05:00As a fellow Reiki practitioner (and someone who pu...As a fellow Reiki practitioner (and someone who purchased a distance session from you via Groupon last night) who has to coach herself on the payment for services front with frequency, I have great r-e-s-p-e-c-t for your position, Alice. Like you, I offer a lot of volunteer services through Reiki. I don't feel that I (we) need to quantify what and how I (we) charge in any way. It has been suggested to me more than once that part of accepting payment for services is respecting ourselves and another part is engendering respect from potential clients; what we do and offer is of value and there is, along the way, a you-get-what-you-pay-for mentality. Namasté, beautiful Alice!Ellen M. Gregghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06103749882861642076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3185237355914939097.post-29159825152196410842011-01-17T11:27:05.330-05:002011-01-17T11:27:05.330-05:00Amen! I'd only like to add - how about EVERYO...Amen! I'd only like to add - how about EVERYONE pay attention to this (not just Reiki practitioners)!! <br /><br />Glad you wrote about this, since it was bothering you - and also because it's always good to be reminded to be respectful (so easy, sometimes, to fall into the opposite).Square-Peg Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11517814281600079549noreply@blogger.com